not that he's always that way, he's been better mostly, but kinda tends to go back and forth.
am I being unreasonable?
I know it takes time to get over being disappointed over a breakup, I've been there myself. but he's got to realize, on some level at least, it really wasn't good for quite some time - for me, or (despite it providing him with a nice place to live, which he nonetheless complained about) for him either.
I just don't know what to do about it. so I left. disengaging from him and the situation was all i could think of to do.
he says he "misses us." but what he misses was living in my apartment, eating for free, and the *good* times. he needs to remember that it wasn't just good times, not by a long shot. and he also needs to realize his contributions to making it fall apart!
and it's not like he's all alone. he has *three* girlfriends!
oh well. I guess all I can do is be patient, and go on trying to be as nice as possible, and just disengage when it isn't productive.