red-headed stepchild in the house of love (djmermaid) wrote,
red-headed stepchild in the house of love
djmermaid

sigh...

another challenging encounter with the exbf today... I'm really getting frustrated around this. I try and try to be as nice to him as possible, and then I see him and he acts like I killed his dog.

not that he's always that way, he's been better mostly, but kinda tends to go back and forth.

am I being unreasonable?

I know it takes time to get over being disappointed over a breakup, I've been there myself. but he's got to realize, on some level at least, it really wasn't good for quite some time - for me, or (despite it providing him with a nice place to live, which he nonetheless complained about) for him either.

I just don't know what to do about it. so I left. disengaging from him and the situation was all i could think of to do.

he says he "misses us." but what he misses was living in my apartment, eating for free, and the *good* times. he needs to remember that it wasn't just good times, not by a long shot. and he also needs to realize his contributions to making it fall apart!

and it's not like he's all alone. he has *three* girlfriends!

oh well. I guess all I can do is be patient, and go on trying to be as nice as possible, and just disengage when it isn't productive.
Subscribe

  • To Absent Friends

    A year ago this weekend, we went to Decompression and Remember the Party. It was too much in one day so I decided I'd only do RTP this year, and stay…

  • Back from FC!

    I just flew back from FC... and boy are my wings tired! 10pm on Tuesday has never seemed so late. I would really like to make a longer post but…

  • WAG Salon (Extra Life 2012)!

    I haven't posted as much as I hope to... mostly I've been off doing things! Am really enjoying watching the Occupy Wall Street saga unfold. You go,…

  • Post a new comment

    Error

    default userpic

    Your reply will be screened

    Your IP address will be recorded 

    When you submit the form an invisible reCAPTCHA check will be performed.
    You must follow the Privacy Policy and Google Terms of use.
  • 7 comments